Want Something You Don't Have? How to Take Control and Get What You Want Pt. 2

How to Take Control and Get What You Want - continued

5. Surround yourself with good words and positive influences

Keep your progressive ball rolling by blasting yourself with as much positive information as he possibly can.

This can come in the form of audio books, YouTube videos from trusted motivational teachers, repeat affirmations that you love, meditations with people whom you resonate with, or even something as simple as mantras that you write on Post-it notes and stick them all around your house so everywhere you turn, if your brain thought it was about to take you on some old fallback train of thought, you've got a yellow piece of paper sting you straight in the face and daring you to keep moving forward down the journey that you have put in place.

6. When your brain starts to take you off track, catch yourself and reset

Early-on when you first start making big changes and wanting to take control of your thoughts after having not done so for very long time, is going to being credibly natural for you to accidentally slip back into old habits of thought.

The good news is that you are aware of this potential issue and that means not only can you deal with it but you can take the steps necessary to correct it before it gets out of hand.

Since emotions are the most potent source of power and energy that you have, find a way to gather your emotions together, transform them based on your passions of today, and release them as new and relevant attractors of what you are now working to build.

If you can't immediately get control of your thoughts, you can at least take control over how you respond to them by a technology that, when you have a negative thought, it is simply a practiced habit that you are on the road to break in and that it means absolutely nothing unless you give it the power to mean something.

So instead of doing that, leave your emotions out of it let, the thought pass and then pick a brand-new thought that lines up with your new-you vision and just keep on going.

7. Practice.

That forward movement despite what may feel like a setback is precisely the way to get where you're trying to go. Gather more momentum for yourself by showing yourself that you can believe in you and your ability to create.

Do this by finding ways of practicing your ability to manifest your desires. It's best to start with something like that you are not too emotionally attached to, if at all. It is also best if your practice rounds are based on something for which you can get a quick response and see visible feedback that shows you how well you are doing quickly and undeniably.

For example, I have no idea why I decided to do this one day aside from feeling not quite like myself because of the sudden inability to find clients for myself. I took it back to basics and decided to put this practice to work in my own situation. I live in a place where I can see the road very clearly and it is a mildly busy road where, during primary traffic times, one or two cars passed by every 20 seconds or so.

This test that I performed was not just about seeing my power but about seeing where my power came from.

Specifically I was testing which was more powerful: the word or the mind.

With my words asked for black cars to pass by. I did this knowing, that statistically, black was one of the most owned color cars in the country. With my heart in emotions, I asked for red car. I waited for about 10 minutes and then I went to the window and began counting cars. For about 15 minutes I tallied the number of black versus red cars that passed by and, you guessed it, I saw more red cars. I didn't count maroon cars I didn't count anything other than, solely lipstick red cars and they were in the bar pretty good margin.

I ended my experiment and later, as I was walking by a window, I noticed a patch of three red cards together. I couldn't help but laugh and even to this day when I see a red car I think of that experiment and remind myself that although sometimes my words may be positive in my intentions may be good but it is the frequency of my emotions and the vibration coming from with in that creates what I experience no matter what.

So start with some little things to believe you can create, do it, test it, and build upon those small successes by gradually improving your level of self belief.

Whatever method you choose, make sure you focus on practicing one experiment at a time so you can put your full focus on that experience which will help you resonate with it more quickly and, thus, transfer it into reality much more quickly.

8. See it. And then you will see it.

This is my least favorite fact of life.

Unfortunately, my liking it does not change a thing. To the matter is if you start seeing your life the way you wanted to be and so the way that it it is currently irritating you, you get where you want to be faster and with more accuracy and that is the bottom line.

So when you are in the thick of things and trying to create a specific life experience, you want to take some time every day and visualize the future you are creating for yourself.

It's sort of like goal setting in movie form. Some scientists look at the brain as being a goal-seeking organism whose processes are only satisfied when even the subconscious mind is hard at work bringing about the experience of a specific, measurable goal.

So to put up with the life you are creating, take daily to put yourself in the future she, perhaps even put on the shoes that the new you would be wearing at this moment. And then use your mind to look forward into the future, the future in which you have become that person.

I know it isn't fun and I know that when you come out it might even be painful, but keep your thoughts light and try to remember that the reason your doing this is so your thoughts can become things, you may be able to detach emotionally from the now and engage fully in the experience that you have set in your mind for yourself.

So visualize what you will be wearing. Put on the cologne you would wear so you can involve your sense of smell. In your future favorite dish so your taste buds can get in on the game. Just for five minutes every day step into the world of the next you and where luck for long garment. Imagine the surroundings, the sounds, how your clothes or your desk will feel.

The mind is a powerful thing and you can immerse yourself in this visualization so deeply that it actually brings you joy and improves your mood. That type of work to become emotionally aligned with the version of you that you are now creating will catapult your momentum toward the realization of that experience.

9. Use the momentum you have been building to help carry the rest of the way

With your mind, actions, and body in line with this new trajectory, the momentum you have in your probability for success is at its height. From here, all you have to do is rants, repeat, and they your course. Remind yourself to think good thoughts, catch yourself of your mind starts to wander, surround yourself with things and people that are in line with the new you. Protect your dream as you will protect your own life.

Getting started on taking control in getting what you want in life

It is so easy to make a change in life, the difficult part is typically in the determination of exactly what one wants and how to begin setting up that lifestyle. An understanding that all the tools one needs is are typically constantly within the persons reach can help kick-start the development of a person’s dream life.

Beginning with a clear definition of exactly what bad dream life is will be the most vital component and is typically the only thing required in order to begin the natural progression towards obtaining that thing. Specific details help the mind create a picture of Where to take you and with that idea clearly said, the mind can focus on its task and it will generate ideas and deliver solutions to you how to get what you desire.

Once you know you want, you can approach it faster because you know what it is.

Take, for instance, the generic request and common desire of many Americans that says they want to have "more money."

Typically people When people talk about having more money that's really as far as they go with it. They don't touch on why they want money or how life will feel when they have it which forces them to continually look at the fact that they don't have it Which keeps them in a bad cycle that they do not want.

I personally believe that money actually does grow on trees. I mean that literally and metaphorically. The simple fact is that the acquisition of money require some sort of a trade or exchange. So if increasing your net worth in terms of dollars is your goal, allowing your mind to spend time meditating on how valuable you are and all the great things you have available to exchange with others will get you in the vicinity of what you want.

If you feel positive energy about it, you can take it a step further and use your Visualization practice to enhance your power by spending the time deliberately engaging with the emotions you have inside that are creating your desire.

So if you plan to use money to fund an education that will help you make life easier for people all around the world, in your visualization, skip all the way to the end and start thinking about those people have their lives will be made more rich inexperience when they have what you have come to give. See their smiles, feel their handshakes, imagine the feelings of gratitude you will see in their eyes. Take yourself out of the equation and consider what it means to them.

By doing so you will lighten your attachment and be able to take the steps you need to take with more confidence because you thinking about what your work is going to do for others and not just about how it feels that you don't have it right now. And, if you can handle it, you might be able to use of creative logic to convince yourself that you actually do have it right now. You did just a moment ago when you were shaking hands and giving hugs.

If you practice that exercise, you will genuinely be moved by the thoughts and emotions to create and, in that moment, those feelings are real even if the catalyst you using to create the feelings has not yet been experienced. But the feelings themselves of real. Hold on to that allowed to expand its reach within your spirit and you will took home come over you that will help your heart play the musical tone that it wants to play based on the desires you have put within it.

With your heart making the music and your mind whispering the tactics, there is absolutely nothing that can stop you from becoming who you want to be.

With the heart of mind aligned, all it takes to win is action, every time.

After the what and the how, there is simply the forward movement. This can come in a variety of forms. To be most productive and to create a situation where the action is almost as enjoyable as the attainment of your goal, the action needs to take place from the heart.

It is that passion, joy, and love that will ignite the power within an act as the catalyst that sparks the flame which lights the path that will take you straight to what you want in life.

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